The
authorities thought she was between eight and 10 years old, she was
so petite. She was one of the 15 undocumented immigrants who had
been killed in the July 22 one-vehicle wreck near Goliad.
Although Adrian Fulton of the Victoria Mortuary
and Cremation Service and Immigration and Customs Enforcement (ICE)
had received hundreds of calls and e-mails from throughout the U.S.
by those looking for missing family members, no one had claimed the
little girl.
So Mr. Fulton, who also owns the Goliad Funeral
Home, spoke with Rev. Raphael Baidoo, O.Ss.T., pastor of Immaculate
Conception Church, and with the community, decided to “adopt” the
small, unknown girl and hold her funeral and have her buried in their
community.
It
was all planned: the date was set for August 22, the feast of the
Queenship of Mary; pall-bearers were chosen; In Memory of ... cards
had been printed; flowers were ordered; and then just days before the
funeral was to take place, they received word that the parents of Miss
“Known Only to God” had been found.
The authorities learned that she wasn’t a little
girl, but a young woman. She was 17-year-old Juana Tiniguar-Aguilar,
of Guatemala.
“We didn’t know her; she didn’t know us, but in
all circumstances we thank God,” Father Ralph said in the funeral Mass
homily.
“She
was very young. Most of us can identify with Juana because at the age
we’re on fire with enthusiasm, but we become victims of someone’s
greed, as happened here,” he said.
“At that age, one says, ‘Oh, I want to go to
America ...,’” he said, “but her dream to come here for a better life
wouldn’t come true.”
“Her death reminded me of Moses,” Father Ralph
said. “After going through all the pain, the thick and the thin, he
died before seeing the Promised Land.”
“This is every parents’ worst nightmare – their
child is involved in an accident and dies ... but luckily their
daughter’s body is not going to be buried in a strange place,” Father
Ralph said, “but will go back to her parents.”
“Her death and the death of her companions was
very sad; nevertheless, it’s a chance for us to reevaluate our own
sense of humility and gratitude, then she didn’t die in vain. And, it
doesn’t hurt to be grateful for the blessing of this country. Juana
and her companions, thank you for reminding us.”
That evening the parish also held a memorial
service for all 15 victims of the vehicle accident.
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